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Thursday, August 30, 2007
`reflections

I just realise why people often say money hurts feeling.

Money can give you everything you want but it can also destory everything that you have. Money is a very sensitive issue to talk about these days. Without money, there's almost nothing you can do in this world. Some may argue there's somethings which money can't buy. but the world exist, 'no money no talk'.

Have you ever face any financial difficulty that resorted to borrowing from relatives or friends? Where you only get 'door shut' or 'hp off' in return? This is what the world is right now. Its some what helpless. Uncertainty is a word i would use to describe it. The world is full of uncertainties. You will never know what will happen next, be it tomorrow or the day after. Unexpected things often just happen that may 'shock' or 'stun' you.

A small matter can become a major problem if it's not handled well. Conflict of interest is one very good example. In Chinese, 'da shi hua xiao, xiao shi hua wu'. Sometimes compromising of one party can easily solve the problem. To have good relationship, learn to compromise is very important. I'm not saying that you have to agree with him although you are totally against it. Be strong in your stand and be careful in your use of words. By self judging the nature of the problem, one have to compromise in order not to affect the relationship.

If you don't really understand the aspect of life, i suggest you to try playing the Sims. Relationship between each Sim is 'describe' in numbers. Good impression increase the number bad impression reduce the number. It is some what the same as for humans. if you quarrel with someone you will definitely create a bad impression of him, vice versa. As everyone says, 'it takes a life to maintain a good relationship but only a second to destory it'.

This is especially true with the use of words during communication. one will definitely loves to hear sweet talks rather then words that hurts. Although some sweet talks may not be 100% true but what delivers to the other means a thousand words. Haven you realise that sweet talk can even brigthen a person's bad day? Yes, infact it improves the relationship between them. However, words that hurts has double effect of sweet talk. One can just destory the relationship with words that are harsh or unfriendly to the other. It is even more serious when one is angry. Words said aren't the actual things he mean from heart. they are merely 'qi hua' which is use to vent their anger. Try avoiding it and it will save you.....

Moral of story: Be careful with choice of words you use.



Juz LeeN ♥ 1:54 PM